How Bondage Helps People with Autism
(eBook)

English

Having autism I struggled with vanilla dating all of my life. In this book I share how finding the bondage community and learning about bondage relationships helped change my life. I always struggled with not saying what I met. I need to be able to verbally discuss all aspects of social relationships before I enter into them. Bondage allows me to do just that. Bondage has improved my health. In this book I will discuss how bondage relationships are very uniquely different than vanilla dating. Bondage relationships are almost designed in ways specifically that encourage success for people with autism in social relationships. In vanilla dating we are taught to hide our true intentions and not say things we truly mean. I struggled with this for many years because from the time I meet a woman I need to tell them what I am thinking and feeling about them and in most vanilla dating situations that is not acceptable. Bondage relationships changed everything for me because you are able to verbally talk and negotiate every single aspect of your relationship. You get to learn all about your partners. Bondage relationships have taken away the guess work that goes into dating and maintaining relationships which is incredibly hard for me. I need to be able to speak what is on my mind to my partner and I really need them to be able to speak freely about what is on their mind with me. I feel that vanilla dating is too much of a game where people have to pretend to be something they are not and hide their true intentions with one another. In this book I will describe in detail how taking the game out of dating has helped me overcome autism and improved my mental and emotional health. I love that I can sit and talk to a woman about what I want out of a relationship with her without scaring her off and pushing her away. This is something that can only be done in a bondage relationship as it is not socially appropriate or acceptable to do so in vanilla dating. In this book you will learn some of the main differences between vanilla dating and bondage relationships. You will learn how bondage relationships help someone with autism better express themselves and function in relationships. You will learn how to verbally talk and discuss what you and your partner want out of a relationship together. You will also learn how bondage relationships improve mental health of people with autism by taking away the anxiety and stress of hiding who they really are in a vanilla dating situation. This is a great tool for understanding the adult autism mind and how adults with autism might function in social relationships.--Provided by publisher.